Yom Kippur Self Examination: 10 Days of Awe Series – Day Seven

You do not commit adultery. ~ Exodus 20:14

Day Seven

1. Have I committed the sins of adultery or fornication?

2. Have I had any sexual experiences outside of marriage?

3. Have I kept my marriage vows of faithfulness unto my spouse only? Have I kept myself from my spouse for reasons other than prayer, illness etc.?

4. Have I done anything impure alone or with any other person(s)?

5. Have I engaged in bestiality, transvestism, sodomy or any other abnormal sexual practice?

6. Have I degraded myself or another person in any way?

7. Have I forgotten or ignored human dignity?

8. Have I been immodest in acts, thoughts, deeds, dress? Have I dressed to entice sexually someone who was not my spouse?

9. Have I lived in an improper way with anyone else?

10. Have I read or looked at immoral, suggestive or pornographic books, magazines, pictures, websites, movies, tapes, dances, plays or performances?

11. Have I entertained impure thoughts or fantasies? Have I been unfaithful to my spouse through impure thoughts or fantasies?

12. Have I looked at any person or thing in an impure way?

13. Have I spoken to or listened to impure or suggestive language, dirty jokes or lewd songs?

14. Have I eaten or drunk too much? Have I temped others to do so as to impair?

15. Have I associated with bad companions?

16. Have I been to an unsavory place and encouraged others to as well?

17. Have I tempted others or led them to commit sinful acts or to entertain sinful thoughts?

18. Have I tempted others through my own immodesty or through suggestive language or actions?

19. Have I been unfaithful to any trust?

20. Have I betrayed the confidence of anyone else?

21. Have I not helped others understand their sexuality in accordance to Torah in purity?

22. Have I not maintained a high moral standard?

Day Eight

 

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